Your Key Principles for Parents: Nurturing Your Child's Growth and Developmentblog post

child-rearing is not just a duty; It is a sacred call. As Premanand Maharaj Ji says, parenting is an intense act that not only shapes the future of the child, but also affects the fabric of society. Think of the child as a gentle clay, in which the parents play the role of potter. The shape you sculpted will last a lifetime. Therefore it is very important to approach parenting with love, patience, strong values, and spiritual awareness.

1. Love with Discipline:

Premanand Maharaj emphasizes that unconditional love is the cornerstone of effective parenting. However, undisciplined love can spoil the child. Just as Lord Krishna's mother Yashoda respected him a lot, yet instilled values in him, similarly today's parents also need to maintain a healthy balance. A child should feel surrounded by love and at the same time understand the importance of right and wrong.

2. Develop values (values).

In the upbringing of children, it is far more important to focus on academic success than to focus on the development of values (values). Maharaj Ji emphasizes that teaching children virtues like honesty, compassion, humility, respect for elders and devotion to God will not only bring them success but also peace in life. Children are like little sponges; They learn by watching. If parents adopt truth and virtue in their lives, children will naturally be motivated to follow the same path.

3. Avoid comparisons.

it is very important not to compare your child with others. As Maharaj Ji has very wisely pointed out, every soul is on its own unique journey. When we constantly compare, it can lead to feelings of inferiority or arrogance—which is not good for anyone. Instead, let's focus on nurturing your child's personal strengths. Celebrate their progress, and remember, it's all about growth, not perfection

4. Spiritual Environment in the Home:

Premanand Maharaj Ji is a great believer in creating a spiritual atmosphere in the house. He suggests that daily prayers, kirtans and stories from saints and scriptures should be included in the daily routine of children. This infuses divine energy into the house and develops the seed of God-consciousness from a young age. When a child starts his day in the name of God, it naturally leads his life towards righteousness.

5. Control your anger.

When a child makes a mistake, it is important to correct it not with anger, but with calmness. The use of harsh words or punishments can hurt a child's soul. Maharaj Ji reminds us that understanding and forgiveness have more power than shouting. So, guide them patiently and improve them with love.

6. Time, not just toys:

Nowadays, many parents shower their children with material gifts, but often overlook the importance of giving them time and attention. Maharaji emphasizes that spending quality time with your children—listening to them, playing with them, and guiding them—creates a deeper bond than any toy. In their early years, your full attention is literally the best gift you can give.

7. Children are like little sponges;

They absorb everything they see. What will happen if you are lying, arguing, or disrespecting others? Your child will also imitate the same behavior. Maharaj Ji very wisely says, "Before you raise your child, create your own character. So, try to make your child the kind of person you want to grow up to be.

Conclusion-

According to Premanand Maharaj Ji, parenting does not mean controlling your child, but guiding him to live a meaningful and value-based life. A child who has love, values and love for God in his heart will never go astray. By raising your child correctly, you not only build a good family, but also a better world.