Log samay Ke Saath Kyu Badal Jaate hain? Insaan Ke Badlav Ki Asli Wajah
Insaan samay ke saath kyu badal jaata hai? Is article mein janenge logon ke badlav ke emotional aur real life reasons, jo har kisi ne mehsoos kiya hain.
Preeti Swami
1/29/20264 min read


Log Samay Ke Saath Kyu Badal Jaate Hain? Insaan Ke Badlav Ki Asli Wajah
Asar logo ye kahte hue suna hoga " Tum pehle jaise nhi rahe " ye badlav ek natural jeevan ka hissa hai. Log time ke saath change ho jaate hai , iska matlab hai woh apni zindgi mein aage badh rahe hai.
Insaan ke badlav ki sabse badi wajah avubhav hota hai. Jo hume dekte hai , jo seekhte hai , jo mehsoos karte hai wahi hume dheere- dheere badal deta hai.
Zamane ke saath log bhi badal jaate hai. Sabse gehri baat to yeh hai kabhi -kabhi log badalte nhi, balki unka asli roop samane aa jata hai.
Isiliye sab changes negative nhi hote. Kuch changes growth ka sign hota hai, or kuch changes hume zindagi ki sachchai samjhate hai.
Is article mein hume janenge ki log samay ke saath kyu badal jaate hai, or negative or positive changes mein ky antar hai.
Zindagi Ka Anubhav Logo ko Kaise Badal Deta Hai.
Zindagi ka anubhav har insaan ko kuch na kuch seekha kar jata hai , chaahe jeet ho ya haar ,dukh ho ya sukh har tarah ka experience insaan se soch par gehra asar dalta hai, jissey insaan ke jeevan mein bhot se changement dekhne ko milte hai.
Jab koi insaan mushkil paristhitiyon se guzarta hai to woh or majboot ban jata hai, or samjhdaar , pratical ho jaata hai , jissey use acche bure insaan ki samjh ho jaati hai.
samay ke saath insaan seekh jata hai kaha use react karna hai or kaha nhi.
Jab hum kisi insaan ko badla hua dekhte hai to uske peeche uske anubahv chhupe hote hain.`
"Jaruri nhi ki har insaan badal kar bura banta hai, kuch logo mein changes usko ek acha insaan bhi banate hai."
Kuch Log Achana Kyu Badal Jaaten Hain?
Kai baar hume lagta hai ki kuch log achanak badal jaate hai, lekin ye badlao raato raat nhi hota ye kafi time se hamare andar chal raha hota hai , jo baad mein bahar aata hain.
Aksar log hurt, dukha ya gam , baar -baar disapoint hone ki wajah se khud ko protect karne lagte hai. Woh jayada chup rahne lagte hai, lekin kabhi- kabhi ye resposibility aur life pressure ki wajah se or zimmedariya , life stress ki wajah se log carefree nhi rahte or ye yahi reason hai ki achanak log badal jate hai.
Samay Ke Saath Aur Priority Mein Badlav
Jaise- jaise samaye aage badhta hai hamari soch or priority bhi change ho jaati hai. Zaroori nhi ki jo cheezein hume pehle important lagti thi woh ab bhi lage.
Samay ke saath insaan ki priority bhi change ho jaati hai , kyuki insaan energy or samay ki value samjhne lagta hai. woh har jagah apni energy or time waste nhi karta. Aur samaye ke saath ye badlav aana jaruri bhi hai, isiliye agar hume aage badhna hai to hume samay ke saath apni life mein bhi changes karna chahiye.
Isiliye samay ke saath priorities ka badalna bilkul natural hai.
Khud Ko Pehchaanne Aur Self-Awareness Aane Se Badlav
Jab insaan samay ke saath khud ko samjhne lagta hai, apni value apni limits, to woh jo sab ko "YES" kehta tha ab "NO" kahne lag jata hai, iska ye matlab nhi ki usme ego hai ya phir woh badal laga, balki yeh self respect or emotional clarity ka nateeja hota hai.
Insaan apni dusro se expectation chhod kar , apni sachchai ke saath jeena shuru kar deta hai or ye badlav bura nhi acha hai.
Real Life Example
Maan lijiye ek insaan jo pehle har kisi ke liye available rehta tha, sabki baat maanta tha aur hamesha khud se zyada dusron ko priority deta tha. Lekin time ke saath jab usne baar-baar ignore hona, disappointment aur emotional hurt mehsoos kiya, to usne dheere-dheere khud ko badal liya.
Ab woh har baat par react nahi karta, har kisi ko khush karne ki koshish nahi karta aur apni boundaries clear rakhta hai. Bahar se log kehte hain, “yeh to bilkul badal gaya”, lekin asal mein woh sirf khud ko samajh kar, apni mental peace ko protect karna seekh gaya.
Yeh badlav achanak lag sakta hai, par yeh lambe samay ke anubhavon ka nateeja hota hai.
Final Thought
Logon ka samay ke saath badalna koi galti ya dhokha nahi hota, balki zindagi ke saath grow karne ka process hota hai. Har badlav ka matlab yeh nahi hota ki insaan kharab ho gaya hai; kai baar woh sirf zyada samajhdaar, mature aur self-aware ho jata hai.
Isliye jab aap kisi ko badalta hua dekhein, to use judge karne se pehle yeh samajhne ki koshish karein ki shayad usne zindagi ko aap se thoda zyada gehra mehsoos kiya ho. Badlav ko kabool karna hi asal samajhdari hai, kyunki jo insaan badalta hai, wahi asal mein jeena seekh raha hota hai. 🌱
FAQs – Log Samay Ke Saath Kyu Badal Jaate Hain?
1. Kya log sach mein samay ke saath badal jaate hain?
Haan, log samay ke saath badalte hain kyunki anubhav, paristhitiyan aur zimmedariyan unki soch aur vyavhaar ko badal deti hain.
2. Kya badlav hamesha negative hota hai?
Nahi, har badlav negative nahi hota. Kai baar yeh badlav maturity, self-respect aur personal growth ka sign hota hai.
3. Kuch log achanak kyu badle hue lagte hain?
Aksar badlav achanak nahi hota, balki andar hi andar chal raha hota hai. Jab woh bahar dikhne lagta hai, tab humein sudden lagta hai.
4. Kya dukh aur dhoka insaan ko badal dete hain?
Haan, emotional hurt aur dhoka insaan ko zyada cautious aur reserved bana dete hain, jo badlav ke roop mein nazar aata hai.
5. Kya priorities badalne ka matlab selfish hona hota hai?
Bilkul nahi. Priorities badalna selfish hona nahi, balki apni life aur mental peace ko samajhne ka sign hota hai.
6. Kya har badlav ko accept karna chahiye?
Har badlav ko samajhne ki koshish karni chahiye. Jab badlav self-growth aur positivity ki taraf ho, to use accept karna hi behtar hota hai.