Kaise pehchaane kaun hamare liye acha hai?

Zindagi mein sabse bada or mushki sawal yahi hota hai ki "kaun hamare liye acha or kaun nhi " Har mushkurata chehra apna ho ye zaroori nhi hai.

Life mein kuch log aise hote hai jo hamare samne to bhot ache hote hai, lekin hamare peet piche bura bolte hai. Aksar hum apne emotions or attachment aur over-trust ki wajah se galat or sahi logo mein fraq nhi kar pate.

Is article mein hum samjhenge ki kaise pehchaane kaun hamare liye acha hai, kaun nhi, taaki hum apne rishton mein ache logo ki pehchaan kar sake.

Ek ache insaan ke kya characteristics hote

1. Ek acha insaan dusro ki madad karne ka koi mauka nhi chhodate. Inke pass paise ho ya na ho, ye hamesha dukh mein insaan ko dekh kar uska bhala karte hai.

2. Ek imaandar insaan hamesha sach or sahi rah par chlata hai , woh kabhi jhoot nhi bolta.

3. Sajan insaan hamesha apni jamedariya nibhata hai ,woh kabhi apni jimmedaariyan se door nhi bhagta.

4. positive attitude, jo ache log hote hai woh har isthi ka samna soch samjh or shant mann se karte hai .

5. Rishton ki importance bhi samjhte hai. Dosto or family ka dhyan bhi rakhte hai.

6. Ek acha insaan dusro ki galti ko maaf karta hai.

7. Sabi ke saath saman behave karte hai.

Sabki nazar Ek acha kaise bane?

Yeh sawal har dil ke kareeb hota hai. Sach main har kisi ko khush karna ashaan nhi, lekin phir bhi kuch tareeke hai jissey hum logo ko khush kar sakte hai.

• Sacchai or Imaandari Rakhein

Jo insaan jaisa hai waise hi rahe, kyuki log ussey hi respect dete hai , jo dikhawa nhi karta. Dikhawa thode time ke liye impress kar sakta hai, hamesha ke liye nhi.

👉Log unhe pasand karte hai jin par bhrosa kiya ja sakta hai.

• Bolne se Zyada sunna Seekhein

Har waqt bolna zaroori nhi hai .

jab aap dusron ki baat dhyan se sunte ho to log mehsoos karte hai ti aap unke izzat kar rahe ho.

👉life mein acha listener bhi hona jaroori hai.

• Respect Sabhi Ko Do ( chahe koi bhi ho)

Logo ka satus paisa ya power dekh kar baat na karo, kyuki ye sab dekh kar badane wale log dil ke ache nhi hote.

👉Chote bade sabke saath same vyvahaar

• Apne words par control rakhein

Kabhi kisi se kadwe sabad na bole, Mazak mein gyi baat dil tod sakti hai.

bolne se pehle sochna jaroori hai,

• kya ye baat jaroori hai ,

• kya ye baat bone se kisi ko hurt to nhi hoga.

• Help karna seekhe

Jo insaan bina matlab ke help karta hai woh sabki nazar m acha ban jata hai.

🤔Ache Log Aksar Khud Par Doubt Kyon Karte Hain?

• Overthinking - Har Baat Ko Dil Se Sochna

  Ache log har baat dil se sochte hai , ki meri baat ka kisi ko bura na lag jaye , mene kuch bura to bol diya aise khyaal aksar ache insaan se mann mein aate hai.

• Sensitive Nature- Dil Se Mehsoos Karna

  Ache dil ke log bhot sensitive hote hai , kyuki woh baato ko gehrai se sochte hai.

  chhoti baat bhi unke dil ko chhu jaati hai.

• Dusro Ka Jayada Sochna - Khud Ko Peeche Rakhna

  Aise log dusro ki jayada sochte hai khud ko peeche rakhte hai .

  Isi wajah se woh khud par doubt karte hai.

  Final Thought

  Ache hone ka yeh matlab nhi ki kabhi aap galt na ho, balki yeh hai ki aap apni galtiyon se seekhne ke liye teyaar hai.

  Agar aap dil se saaf hai or apna kaam imandaari se karte hai, kabhi kisi ke saath galt karne ki nhi sochte , har samaye thoda- thoda kuch behtarin karte hain to apse acha koi nhi hai.

  👉toh aap ache insaan hain|

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  FAQs

Q1. Kya har acha insaan ignore hota hai?

Nahi, par kai baar ache log loud nahi hote isliye unnoticed reh jaate hain।

Q2. Ache hone ka matlab kya sabki help karna hota hai?

Nahi, sirf utni madad jitni aap khud ko harm kiye bina kar sakein।

Q3. Agar log mujhe galat samajhte hain toh?

Logon ki soch unke experience par depend karti hai,

aapki niyat par nahi।

Q4. Kya soft nature hona weakness hai?

Bilkul nahi. Soft dil aur strong boundaries — yahi asli strength